I'd need to try and find more data from porn hub and other sources, but I doubt porn hub is actually indicative of society at large. For example, what percentag

I'd need to try and find more data from porn hub and other sources, but I doubt porn hub is actually indicative of society at large. For example, what percentage of porn hub's audience is male vs. female? In the US it appears only about 30% are female. https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2019-year-in-review#gender https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2019-year-in-review#gender The idea that pornographic preferences are somehow an indicator of people's actual sex lives does not follow. There is a big difference between fantasy and what people actually intend to do. For example I really enjoy psychological thrillers involving a murderer hiding in nearly plain sight. I have no intention of killing anyone, being a victim of murder, or even knowing anyone who is a victim. It's just an interesting fantasy.