I honestly never think about it - two identical people could do the exact same thing, and the situation could unfold differently. People fail upward all of the

I honestly never think about it - two identical people could do the exact same thing, and the situation could unfold differently. People fail upward all of the time. Things tend to not be fair or just. As long as I feel like I'm taking steps forward, that's all I need. I had a terrible upbringing and I'm sure we could commiserate or compare scars, but that's not the point. The only way you get out of the storm is by not dwelling on it