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Further, I think it is largely undesirable for people in their late teens or early 20s to be living with romantic partners. Breakups are way more complicated wh
by UncleMeat 5y ago
Further, I think it is largely undesirable for people in their late teens or early 20s to be living with romantic partners. Breakups are way more complicated when you also lose your housing.
- throwaway0a5e 5y agoPeople don't get good at stuff unless they practice At some point you need to just do these adult things in order to get good. Delaying doesn't change that much. Better to get the practice over with as soon as possible.
- UncleMeat 5y agoThat's true. But moving in with somebody is high risk. You often need to practice at just being in a relationship and get good at that first. What is the average number of romantic partners that a person lives with in their life? It probably isn't that high.
- prawn 5y agoTravelling with a partner is a better bet. Involves a lot of the testing scenarios that living with someone brings: decisions, shared finances, putting in effort, cleanliness in shared space (roadtrip car, motel rooms) etc. But worst case you've wasted a week and a smaller amount of money.