It's a false dichotomy, we have the full English language at our disposal, so we can describe the nuances of the situation. I know the situation you're referenc

It's a false dichotomy, we have the full English language at our disposal, so we can describe the nuances of the situation. I know the situation you're referencing, and it's frustrating to see the argument boil down to some kind of lexical 'gotcha!'.