One of my siblings comes to mind as someone who is good at this. This seems like another way of saying we have to choose our battles (priorities). I believe w

One of my siblings comes to mind as someone who is good at this. This seems like another way of saying we have to choose our battles (priorities). I believe working (as wisely as we can) in the service of others is important. But we have to prioritize, and being peaceful, & kind & responsible to those nearest us are high priorities.