> It seems that what most people want to happen when someone takes accountability is to lose their job and ideally become unemployable by anyone for as long as

> It seems that what most people want to happen when someone takes accountability is to lose their job and ideally become unemployable by anyone for as long as possible. This is extremely context-dependent. It's easy to switch the exceptions with the rule, especially since a lot of media personalities benefit by swapping those around. What you should do if the situation arises for you personally is definitely not the martyr thing that a lot of "good" people end up doing when they perceive that life isn't fair. Not only is it a withdrawal from executive function, but it's a withdrawal to subjectivity so it will automatically look self-centered even if you are throwing yourself under the bus. Be really careful about making quick decisions at times like that. There's also no general rule that applies everywhere. And for good reason--context and details really matter and they can help you out of a mistake. People want to forgive, however they will always look for social or informational signals to derive conclusions. For every person who wants somebody fired because of perceived insensitivity, there's another person who wants someone fired because of perceived lack of education or expertise. Knowing which is which can help you navigate the situation and understand the broader discussion. You'll find pretty amazing exceptions to the issue, even corporate teams that go to great lengths to provide cover and anonymity so that a good result can be achieved for all involved, including the one blamed for the problem. But by its nature that kind of example will never get as many retweets. Overall I'd be really careful not to prepare yourself for future mistakes by referencing the world at large and especially any headlines or social shares or retweets. Usually it's a much different situation with more leverage on your end than you'd think.