A man can’t just yell in another man’s face for 5 or 10 minutes about how he’s hurting his feelings. My first boss would disagree by example. I really want to

A man can’t just yell in another man’s face for 5 or 10 minutes about how he’s hurting his feelings. My first boss would disagree by example. I really want to say something like “Let’s all try hard to be thoughtful and substantive on this one.” Maybe HN can surprise us still. It seems mistaken to frame all feminization of political discourse as a problem. We live in a world designed by men, for men. It took many years of being married to a fantastic programmer to see this. I once told her she could get a nice raise if only she would be more assertive. What I really meant was aggressive. She pointed out that yes, that’s how men want women (and everyone else) to behave, and that the incentive structures weren’t random.