That's a great analogy that I think is spot on. To expand on this bit though: > It doesn't mean I think it shouldn't have happened, or that I'm going to attem

That's a great analogy that I think is spot on. To expand on this bit though: > It doesn't mean I think it shouldn't have happened, or that I'm going to attempt to sabotage them. You can probably see how if you go to your coworker, and tell them "It would have been in my best interest and created a world I more prefer if you had gotten less", they may get upset with you. This is what's happening here.