Write down what are your expectations at 35. Maybe they are outdated and you have been imposing them to yourself unconsciously, making yourself feel bad because

Write down what are your expectations at 35. Maybe they are outdated and you have been imposing them to yourself unconsciously, making yourself feel bad because of it. Re-asset them to match your current situation and find your new priorities. If you are lacking passion, it's time for a new challenge outside of your comfort zone. If that doesn't work, you can always go back to what you are used to.