Nothing hard to explain. I feel the same way (only one kid). Just feels like I never get to lead projects or take on big chunks of work past few gigs. I really

Nothing hard to explain. I feel the same way (only one kid). Just feels like I never get to lead projects or take on big chunks of work past few gigs. I really want to start my own thing in the next few years. Treating this as a cautionary tale what advice would you give someone wanting what you have?