I agree that these probably shouldn't be called dark patterns, maybe neutral? > For example the "illusion of control" is everywhere, and it makes better games.

I agree that these probably shouldn't be called dark patterns, maybe neutral? > For example the "illusion of control" is everywhere, and it makes better games. But what is a better game? A game that is enjoyed by most people, good retention or maybe a bit of both? I'm also curious to see your take on what a dark pattern is.