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> while that does make sense, i am in a pretty isolated region and i'd like to pick a specific different region. Really, people shouldn't have to be aware of r
by amadeuspagel 5y ago
> while that does make sense, i am in a pretty isolated region and i'd like to pick a specific different region.
Really, people shouldn't have to be aware of regions at all, which is why I initially wanted to use just one server, rather then deno deploy. (I still plan to realize that with deno deploy, it's just harder.)
> also, while i am at it, i'd prefer a small group rather than one on one.
Thought about that, but one-on-one seems simpler in many ways. There's never the question of who starts speaking. If one person stops, the other starts. It's also easier for two people to find a common interest then for more.
- em-bee 5y agoright, no region is better than being tied to a specific region. one-on-one requires everyone to speak. with more people some can listen and only speak when they have something interesting to add. if the two people don't have a topic then there will be an awkward silence. with more people it is also easier to find any topic to talk about. for introverts getting started is difficult, but ending a conversation equally so. in small groups people can join, wait until they are asked to introduce themselves, listen until they have something to say and leave whenever they need to without inconveniencing anyone else who wants to continue to talk.