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I'm a dad of a 5yo girl in therapy since 2 years, both alone and with my soon to be my ex wife, a woman who grew up without a father and now thinks our girl doe

I'm a dad of a 5yo girl in therapy since 2 years, both alone and with my soon to be my ex wife, a woman who grew up without a father and now thinks our girl doesn't need one either. I'm surely not a beta male. Not at all. Almost all my friends have no children. My therapist has no children either (in Italy there's a big, big demographic crisis). At work in Italy you don't talk about your personal problems, it sure hurts your career, empathy is not a desired human trait. Your experience is yours only, I'm glad it has been positive, it's not the same for everyone. Every help that could help is ok.

howmayiannoyyou 5y ago
The science on this is well established and available in layman's terms all over the web... girls need a dad and they need him early, and often. Send your soon-to-be former spouse this information. If necessary ask the Court to appoint a 3rd party advocate for the child.
pbarondadditude 5y ago
I'm sorry that you're going through this situation and I'm glad that you've reached out for support long ago. I hope things settle down soon for you and your kid. Thanks for sharing these details about Italy. I had no idea. Is it the same for moms there?