> get your ass to a qualified and experienced therapist and work through your issues, rather than turning to an online support group for answers I generally ag

> get your ass to a qualified and experienced therapist and work through your issues, rather than turning to an online support group for answers I generally agree with your sentiment (though find it a bit inflammatory for no real reason), but what on earth is wrong with online support groups? These are extremely effective for lots and lots of people. Honestly it sounds like you may be the one who should seek therapy.