You seem to take issue with "long, emotional, draining, and lonely journey." by accepting that it is the first three, and you solve the fourth with "if you're l

You seem to take issue with "long, emotional, draining, and lonely journey." by accepting that it is the first three, and you solve the fourth with "if you're lonely why aren't you keeping in touch with others?". That last point seems like an unusual complaint against something that is intended as a community where people can keep in touch with others.