Just to state the obvious, the common factor in all your 1x1's have been you. I have no idea about you, so in very general terms to have them be unreasonably e

Just to state the obvious, the common factor in all your 1x1's have been you. I have no idea about you, so in very general terms to have them be unreasonably effective there needs to be preparation and input from both sides. Even if nothing else happens in the 1x1, it is where you can build personal relations as well. That will happen regardless of how prepared anyone is, but it is not always a positive one.