This is not a software developer problem, this is a socially awkward dude problem. You go to places for socially awkward people and are astonished to meet soci

This is not a software developer problem, this is a socially awkward dude problem. You go to places for socially awkward people and are astonished to meet socially awkward people. Woah, who would have thought. Yes, your peers are changing diapers. But here's a brilliant idea - you are a man and women love older men with resources. Go to places where these younger women are and you will solve your problem. What will not solve your problem is yapping about it on hackernews, because as you may have guessed, young women are not known to hang out at hackernews.