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anecdotally, this feels like the tenth "Ask HN" I've seen pop up in the past week that seems to be driven by loneliness. A lot of us seem to be creeping up on a
by Eric_WVGG 5y ago
anecdotally, this feels like the tenth "Ask HN" I've seen pop up in the past week that seems to be driven by loneliness. A lot of us seem to be creeping up on a breaking point.
- AlwaysRock 5y agoA multi year pandemic will do that to ya. Even if you live in an area that doesnt take it very seriously, meet ups and in office work/events are still significantly smaller or less frequent than they were pre pandemic. TBH my weekly online poker game with buddies keeps me sane.
- holler 5y agoSomeone close to me had a breakdown last night and it freaked me out... I could tell it's been building ever since the pandemic started and I sensed poor coping mechanisms were being used more frequently. I have compassion because I've felt that way too, but nonetheless it's a wake up call to be honest with those around us and talk about the negative feelings! It's refreshing to see how many other people are dealing with it and to know that none of us are alone!
- mythrwy 5y agoFebruary is a rough time of year also. In my opinion it's a month to be especially sensitive to others and especially mindful of your own emotional state. Something about the short days or months of cold or something. No accident Valentines Day is that month imo.