> you should probably be a bit more engaged with the people that mean something to you If someone is neurotypical and fully functional... maybe? For someone wh

> you should probably be a bit more engaged with the people that mean something to you If someone is neurotypical and fully functional... maybe? For someone who isn't, this is basically "try harder to be normal", with all of the guilt and judgement that implies. For example: Telling a person with chronic clinical depression they have no reason to be depressed and are being ungrateful for having a successful career.