Not sure if it's any help, but I enjoyed the books "How to win friends and influence people" and currently "The Laws of Human Nature". The main gist is that ma

Not sure if it's any help, but I enjoyed the books "How to win friends and influence people" and currently "The Laws of Human Nature". The main gist is that many of the things you see in people are just a reflection of yourself, mostly your insecurities/defects. Try to really get to know people without instantly assigning the label "unattractive", "looking for a husband", "boring" when you see them. People are very complex; everyone has good and bad parts. Even if you have no interest in befriending someone, just try to understand them and their point of view, it will also help you understand yourself better and what you really want.