You aren't wrong. A sober look at how society judges people should remove all surprise surrounding this topic, unfair as it may be - men are judged primarily b

You aren't wrong. A sober look at how society judges people should remove all surprise surrounding this topic, unfair as it may be - men are judged primarily by financial / dominance success / physical indicators of dominance (e.g. height) and women are primarily judged on their appearance / youth.