It's a normal problem that we face when we get out of college. From a foreigner POV though, it seems it's a bigger problem in the US than many other places. Peo

It's a normal problem that we face when we get out of college. From a foreigner POV though, it seems it's a bigger problem in the US than many other places. People here move a lot, it's common to go to college and meet people in one state, and get a job in another state. Also, friendships don't go as deep as in other cultures where perhaps the initial chit-chat is not as welcoming but getting to know someone truly builds reliable, long-lasting friendships. In my opinion, big cities like NYC can make it better or worse even. They make it extra hard to build community as everyone is minding their own business and people come and go without any attachment to anyone, but on the upside there's a lot more people, so the odds are obviously better.