It sounds like you tried hobbies to meet people instead of having any real interest in those hobbies. People with real interest can tell if someone is faking i

It sounds like you tried hobbies to meet people instead of having any real interest in those hobbies. People with real interest can tell if someone is faking it. Try to do things that really interest you. Also don’t judge non-attractive people. They may make good friends and introduce you to their friends who might be attractive for you. And even if only thing interests you is programming then try to volunteer your programming skills somewhere. Not only you might meet someone but also do social good.