I don’t know why many people here seem to assume that finding a significant other will solve your happiness/loneliness problems. I met a girl some years ago we

I don’t know why many people here seem to assume that finding a significant other will solve your happiness/loneliness problems. I met a girl some years ago we are now married and even though the first year was great it has all started going downhill from there. I am now at a point where I hate my life, and as OP even though I’m making more money than I ever dreamed I am still miserable and still remember my broke college years as the best of my life. Now I’m thinking about how to get a divorce without hurting my partner that much. It’s awful and I feel terrible for her. But I think it’s for the better as I definitely won’t stand 40+ years like this, I’m also in my thirties. Marriage is definitely a bad deal for men (and great for women). I can’t understand/believe how many men are able to marry twice. For me it’s enough to make a huge mistake once to learn from it and never do it again. I guess in the end I’d say be careful what you wish for I’d trade places with you right away.