Think about your situation as if it was a minor foot injury. First thing is to alleviate the pain so you can think clearly without rushing. Have a great meal,

Think about your situation as if it was a minor foot injury. First thing is to alleviate the pain so you can think clearly without rushing. Have a great meal, eat an ice cream, go for a run in the park, get a massage, pedicure, have a cold shower, do all above and keep doing it regularly. With that under control, increase your exposure to stuff and people. Attend meetups. Sign up for 10 different friend/dating site and put up profiles. Do volunteering work. Take some random day classes. The point is not to pick the right stuff, but to come in contact with more people. Maybe one of them out of 100 is someone you take liking to and that opens you up to their circle of friends. It’s all a game of numbers. Best of luck.