I think some cultures are just totally out of whack though, the British Victorian attitude of children should be seen and not heard is just a cover for abuse, a

I think some cultures are just totally out of whack though, the British Victorian attitude of children should be seen and not heard is just a cover for abuse, and there are people today still using this, I see it frequently on social media, mothers do it alot, its like they want kids but not the hassle. However noone really sits all women down and explain this is how your life will change, you dont see this at school, you dont see this anywhere, and the same goes for blokes. Noone ever sits you down so to speak and say hey, this is the consequences of your actions if you take this path. As a human race we just keep screwing up making the same mistakes time and time again, which works for corrupt institutions, because we end up having to validate their existence in one form or another.