If you don't feel like taking on that responsibility, don't do it. But understand: the vast majority of human history is colored by a desire to grow a family i

If you don't feel like taking on that responsibility, don't do it. But understand: the vast majority of human history is colored by a desire to grow a family in order to provide strength to their progeny knowing that they, in turn, will face an unkind future and can be protected, in some degree, by their kin. Sounds like you're at the end of a multi-billion year winning streak. Your ancestors did well.