Part of me thinks its the "working towards" part, independent of the family/marriage bit. I can't prove it though. I think if you drop off the rails of a tradi

Part of me thinks its the "working towards" part, independent of the family/marriage bit. I can't prove it though. I think if you drop off the rails of a traditional lifestyle, you need to be ready to stand on your own two feet a little more when it comes to intrinsic motivation.