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>its quite obvious that you are well endowed and using it to your advantage by wearing revealing clothing What is "revealing clothing" to you. We are not in th

>its quite obvious that you are well endowed and using it to your advantage by wearing revealing clothing What is "revealing clothing" to you. We are not in the 1900s where it's a crime to show a little ankle. Her clothing is nothing out of the ordinary in many videos. If you have big boobs people will notice no matter what you wear, youtube shouldn't act different based on your body... If another youtube would exist who has very small "assets" I can assure you nothing would've happened.

twofornone 5y ago
It's so weird that this is the default response. Again, I'm not making a moral judgement. But the first three tweets in the linked thread: 1. Bare midriff and tiny shorts 2. Deliberately fully exposed cleavage 3. A tiny spaghetti strap Wear whatever you want, but don't be surprised when you get sexual attention, and don't pretend that as a public figure who makes money off of eyeballs that you're not deliberately taking advantage of your assets. It's like we're not allowed to acknowledge that people dress for attention without being accused of puritanism or shaming. And while we're on the subject, it is disingenuous to ignore the fact that the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men. Social norms around modest dress may exist for a reason beyond oppression or patriarchy or what have you. It's tens of millions of years of evolution - not quite fair to pretend that revealing clothing does not force an onus onto men to suppress visceral urges.
- theshrike79 5y ago
  There was a video, by her, explaining this years ago. The standard for "sexy" is completely different in China vs USA. Extremely skimpy clothing isn't culturally "sexy" or frowned upon in Chinese culture as it is in USA.
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- anonAndOn 5y ago
  >the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men Yikes. That's some incestuous ideology. Thankfully, there are many men who do not suffer from such instincts.
- dr_dshiv 5y ago
  Yeah, but what about the music video and commercial advertising argument? E g., That sexiness is commonly used in western society? Why single her out? Also, if it were about the "onus", where does it stop? I'm regularly attracted to women and OBVIOUSLY I have to suppress my visceral urges. Do you want women to wear a burkha?
- iamtedd 5y ago
  As a gay man, I most certainly do not! Please stop making such pseudo-intellectual sweeping statements.
- nottorp 5y ago
  > Wear whatever you want, but don't be surprised when you get sexual attention (Lack of) Self control much?
- rbanffy 5y ago
  > the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men. No. We are not all that shallow. In order to cause such a reaction there has to be some context, some hint of availability. I like her. I enjoy her videos. I'd like to have a coffee or beer with her. I'd love to be her friend. I'd like to ask her a ton of questions (political, technical, social), but I am not sexually attracted to her. Even if I were, I know I'm not what she likes and that she's not single. > force an onus onto men to suppress visceral urges. The universe has no obligation to make it easy for a person not to behave like an animal. That's what the sizeable lump of tissue inside your head is for. It's not a space heater.

twofornone 5y ago

It's so weird that this is the default response. Again, I'm not making a moral judgement. But the first three tweets in the linked thread: 1. Bare midriff and tiny shorts 2. Deliberately fully exposed cleavage 3. A tiny spaghetti strap Wear whatever you want, but don't be surprised when you get sexual attention, and don't pretend that as a public figure who makes money off of eyeballs that you're not deliberately taking advantage of your assets. It's like we're not allowed to acknowledge that people dress for attention without being accused of puritanism or shaming. And while we're on the subject, it is disingenuous to ignore the fact that the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men. Social norms around modest dress may exist for a reason beyond oppression or patriarchy or what have you. It's tens of millions of years of evolution - not quite fair to pretend that revealing clothing does not force an onus onto men to suppress visceral urges.

theshrike79 5y ago
There was a video, by her, explaining this years ago. The standard for "sexy" is completely different in China vs USA. Extremely skimpy clothing isn't culturally "sexy" or frowned upon in Chinese culture as it is in USA.
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anonAndOn 5y ago
>the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men Yikes. That's some incestuous ideology. Thankfully, there are many men who do not suffer from such instincts.
dr_dshiv 5y ago
Yeah, but what about the music video and commercial advertising argument? E g., That sexiness is commonly used in western society? Why single her out? Also, if it were about the "onus", where does it stop? I'm regularly attracted to women and OBVIOUSLY I have to suppress my visceral urges. Do you want women to wear a burkha?
iamtedd 5y ago
As a gay man, I most certainly do not! Please stop making such pseudo-intellectual sweeping statements.
nottorp 5y ago
> Wear whatever you want, but don't be surprised when you get sexual attention (Lack of) Self control much?
rbanffy 5y ago
> the female figure induces a instinctual physiological and psychological responses in men. No. We are not all that shallow. In order to cause such a reaction there has to be some context, some hint of availability. I like her. I enjoy her videos. I'd like to have a coffee or beer with her. I'd love to be her friend. I'd like to ask her a ton of questions (political, technical, social), but I am not sexually attracted to her. Even if I were, I know I'm not what she likes and that she's not single. > force an onus onto men to suppress visceral urges. The universe has no obligation to make it easy for a person not to behave like an animal. That's what the sizeable lump of tissue inside your head is for. It's not a space heater.