The thing that annoys me about most routing solutions is that they do not allow me to choose between fastest and most economical routes and they don't allow me

The thing that annoys me about most routing solutions is that they do not allow me to choose between fastest and most economical routes and they don't allow me to disallow classes of road. For instance Tesla's in car routing is pretty good for getting somewhere quickly so long as all the roads alog the way are of good quality. But if there is a single lane country road that cuts a few minutes off a journey it will quite happily send me down it regardless of how suitable it is for a larger than average car with only 13 cm of ground clearance (Model S). I can tell it not to use motorways (perhaps because I want a scenic route?) and ferries (because they are expensive) but I can't tell it to avoid unmetalled roads. Most of the others that I have tried aren't much better.