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>Frankly I completely fail to see where am I being emotional. I thought you are. I guess having totally different cultural background plays a role here. How do

>Frankly I completely fail to see where am I being emotional. I thought you are. I guess having totally different cultural background plays a role here. How do you know we have a totally different cultural background when you don't even know my background? It's obvious emotions play a role in your thinking because your conclusions are illogical. If your conclusions are not based on logic then they are based on emotion. Observe this quote: >you feel that pure FP is underappreciated and it hurts your feelings. How do you know what I feel? How do you know it hurts my feelings? You don't. I honestly don't care whether or not FP or OOP is popular. But I do think OOP is over used. That's it. The fact that you can (wrongly) assume something you have no information about displays how emotions are overruling your rational judgement. >I come here mostly for entertainment and unless I read some story about horrific abuse of human I could not care less. Too bad if I make different impression. What does this have to do with anything? When I tell someone to be more rational I'm not telling them to become a logical automaton or become a savant. You or most people attempting to do this is a form of lying to yourself. You're human and you feel emotions. That's that. What you can do is allow less emotions to influence your judgement and bias. That's all I'm suggesting.

FpUser 5y ago
>"How do you know we have a totally different cultural background when you don't even know my background?" I can clearly see it from how we "understand" each other. >"How do you know what I feel?" In previous message I said literally: "This is what your post reads like to me". In my version of not native English it translates to: I do not really know how you feel but this is the impression I am getting. As for the rest of your message - Have a nice day.
- deltaonefour 5y ago
  >I do not really know how you feel but this is the impression I am getting. That's the problem. You get "impressions" and those impressions are inaccurate to a degree that is completely off base. >I can clearly see it from how we "understand" each other. More illogical thinking. Imagine this simple scenario: Two people from the same culture, misunderstanding each other. Is this scenario possible? Two people from the same culture CAN misunderstand each other. Just because you think I misunderstand you or you misunderstand me doesn't mean we're from a different culture. Please be more rational. >As for the rest of your message - Have a nice day. Nah. You're lying. You're just pretending to be above it all. Typical. You don't want me to have a nice day, in fact you dislike me. Just be plain honest about it. You dislike my opinions and you took emotional offense to me stating the truth about your character.

FpUser 5y ago

>"How do you know we have a totally different cultural background when you don't even know my background?" I can clearly see it from how we "understand" each other. >"How do you know what I feel?" In previous message I said literally: "This is what your post reads like to me". In my version of not native English it translates to: I do not really know how you feel but this is the impression I am getting. As for the rest of your message - Have a nice day.

deltaonefour 5y ago
>I do not really know how you feel but this is the impression I am getting. That's the problem. You get "impressions" and those impressions are inaccurate to a degree that is completely off base. >I can clearly see it from how we "understand" each other. More illogical thinking. Imagine this simple scenario: Two people from the same culture, misunderstanding each other. Is this scenario possible? Two people from the same culture CAN misunderstand each other. Just because you think I misunderstand you or you misunderstand me doesn't mean we're from a different culture. Please be more rational. >As for the rest of your message - Have a nice day. Nah. You're lying. You're just pretending to be above it all. Typical. You don't want me to have a nice day, in fact you dislike me. Just be plain honest about it. You dislike my opinions and you took emotional offense to me stating the truth about your character.