>If two parties agree to something, it doesn't fall to only one of them to make sure everything works out, regardless of the behavior of the other party. Sure,

>If two parties agree to something, it doesn't fall to only one of them to make sure everything works out, regardless of the behavior of the other party. Sure, that's why I stipulated 'sometime you're up against impossible odds'. But I don't see how there can be talk of an equal partnership when one party is expected to bring in all the money and do half the emotional labour, and typically a good chunk of the housework in the process.