Just going by the numbers and the outcomes, your high-earning VP woman is a LOT LOT rarer than the average lovestruck engineer who doesn't look before he leaps.

Just going by the numbers and the outcomes, your high-earning VP woman is a LOT LOT rarer than the average lovestruck engineer who doesn't look before he leaps. Yes of course both sexes can theoretically face the same thing, but in practice it is very biased.