The grieving process is very important and when it is subverted by the continued opening of woulds, it can cause problems. There is a great This American Life

The grieving process is very important and when it is subverted by the continued opening of woulds, it can cause problems. There is a great This American Life about this, where a 16 year olds mother dies but left her notes to be given to her on specific days (typically birthdays). The results are very interesting: http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/401/parent-trap http://www.thisamericanlife.org/radio-archives/episode/401/p...