What do you mean by feelings? Love is a valid emotion in a friendship, I love my best friend as much as I’ve loved any partner. Feelings are not inherently roma

What do you mean by feelings? Love is a valid emotion in a friendship, I love my best friend as much as I’ve loved any partner. Feelings are not inherently romantic, romantic love is a choice. Do you mean you find yourself lusting after your friends? If so, you should think about why that is and why you allow it to control your relationships, because lust as a catalyst for the compromise of a friendship is terrible for all involved. Your life will improve substantially when you begin to treat all friendships, regardless of gender, as distinct, complex and meaningful relationships.