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I don't think this is right at all. I've been in several long term committed relationships. I still randomly get feelings for female friends of mine. I don't t
by Madmallard 5y ago
I don't think this is right at all.
I've been in several long term committed relationships. I still randomly get feelings for female friends of mine. I don't think it has to do with anything the poster above is saying. It just can happen regardless.
- phphphphp 5y agoWhat do you mean by feelings? Love is a valid emotion in a friendship, I love my best friend as much as I’ve loved any partner. Feelings are not inherently romantic, romantic love is a choice. Do you mean you find yourself lusting after your friends? If so, you should think about why that is and why you allow it to control your relationships, because lust as a catalyst for the compromise of a friendship is terrible for all involved. Your life will improve substantially when you begin to treat all friendships, regardless of gender, as distinct, complex and meaningful relationships.
- Madmallard 5y agoWhat you're saying is subjective but you're acting as if it is objective.