It can be done if you respect them and yourself. It’s pretty rare for me to not know if I’m gonna hook up with a woman in The first 6-12 months of knowing her.

It can be done if you respect them and yourself. It’s pretty rare for me to not know if I’m gonna hook up with a woman in The first 6-12 months of knowing her. By then I’ve either raised the idea, or at least had the “if we were both single…” conversation and got a pretty good idea if they’re open to the idea of considering it later if the situation allows. (Having said that, I’m in the older end of the demographic here, and I know for sure I didn’t have this worked out when I was in my 20s and still had teenaged hormones rushing around my brain…)