I recently moved on from a place where I'd built core systems I was very proud of, where I'd started my dev career 12 years previous. Why? Because when I'd end

I recently moved on from a place where I'd built core systems I was very proud of, where I'd started my dev career 12 years previous. Why? Because when I'd ended up with full custody of my children two years prior to the pandemic, I needed to reduce my hours in the office, but I'd make them up at home. After a decade of doing unpaid overtime (prod problems, talking to product owners in a different timezone), I figured they knew I was good for it. But, no, it was a huge problem apparently. But then the pandemic happened, and working from home all the time was absolutely okay. I grew resentful that full time remote was quickly okay, but I'd been hauled over coals for wanting to leave an hour earlier to pick my youngest up from daycare before it closed. So, I moved on. And absolutely no regrets.