If the relationship is genial, what is the real problem with being a child if divorce? I have no doubt about your experience, I'm asking from a place of "I don'

If the relationship is genial, what is the real problem with being a child if divorce? I have no doubt about your experience, I'm asking from a place of "I don't know and can't really imagine it." I was very, very lucky with the family lottery, so this is pretty foreign to me.