> on the daily No, I am not arguing that. I am arguing that the system allows for it to happen a non-zero amount of the time. And as a consequence of that pos

> on the daily No, I am not arguing that. I am arguing that the system allows for it to happen a non-zero amount of the time. And as a consequence of that possibility, the fear of it happened is a reasonably motivating factor in parent behavior. Which isn't something we can (or should) probably fix. But is something that is.