This is the most confounding thing for me as well. There are plenty of times having a single shared tag is what you want. But you either have one person able to

This is the most confounding thing for me as well. There are plenty of times having a single shared tag is what you want. But you either have one person able to find the item and one person getting stalker alerts, or both people getting both. [edit: expand “both” as necessary to include the entire family :) ]