I can understand why this is the case. There are no social norms for accepting tips. How do you split it? What do you do if other servers ask what you did with

I can understand why this is the case. There are no social norms for accepting tips. How do you split it? What do you do if other servers ask what you did with the money? It would be shameful to accept this if the social norms prohibit any sort of tipping.