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I don't know about that. People keep home movies, pictures, etc. Likely over-time she may check them less and less, probably does so already. Maybe only checkin
by dailyrorschach 15y ago
I don't know about that. People keep home movies, pictures, etc. Likely over-time she may check them less and less, probably does so already. Maybe only checking on certain days or holidays. I don't think it's that strange, plenty of people keep reminders of loved one's lost without crippling themselves.
- 3am 15y agoIt's just that she mentioned that his contact was just below her best friend. From there it's just one click to have access to years of correspondence. And it's particularly difficult to consider deleting contacts or calendar reminders for love ones who have passed, so this is presented to her on a regular basis (not just when she wants to remember him, like one would do with home movies/photographs/etc). I don't think it's crippling, it just makes the process of moving on a little longer and more difficult.
- joeyh 15y agoYes, the thing to do would be to archive it, and then delete the contact. Similar to taking the love letters out of the desk drawer and moving them up to a trunk in the attic. Also has the added benefit of not being dependent on gmail retaining the logs. This needs to be made easier and encouraged.
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