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It really seems like they've been saying to take a deep breath and not pressure yourself into giving away all your data, and people here are self-defensively ov
by Vrondi 5y ago
It really seems like they've been saying to take a deep breath and not pressure yourself into giving away all your data, and people here are self-defensively over-reacting. Saying that you don't _have_ to stress yourself out by being a micro-manager doesn't imply you're evil if you like being a micro-manager.
- hluska 5y agoI catch that. But this parent isn’t giving away their data. They found a solution that works in their unique situation and chose to share it. I just don’t get the judgment. Maybe I’m more sensitive to it because I’m a single parent and have faced my own judgment. But dude, other parents can be awful to parents. It’s not okay. Let’s just be kind - parenting is hard enough without every expert telling you that based on their experience with their 1.75 children, you’re wrong.
- magicalist 5y ago> take a deep breath and not pressure yourself into giving away all your data they were responding to a comment about a self-hosted web app, so it's not even relevant > doesn't imply you're evil Just that you're doing something "possibly harmful", you're "a sucker", and you're "just satisfying your urges". But, sure, not evil. Yeah, they were shit comments, people aren't over reacting by asking how they could possibly be helpful.