Crucial lesson that I’ve learned the hard way: never make decisions regarding spiritual and irrational side of your life with your rational brain. Unless you

Crucial lesson that I’ve learned the hard way: never make decisions regarding spiritual and irrational side of your life with your rational brain. Unless you consider a wife as purely a business partner with concrete common goals in mind. This sounds cheesy but its true nonetheless - don’t go from your mind (he is always looking for more and always unsatisfied), go from your heart. On the technical side - i’d just expose myself more to various social contexts, would be more proactive in starting meaningful conversations, would take more responsibility for the interaction (not for control over other party’s reactions), would say no more often, would believe in myself more and trusted my intuition, would waste less time just trying to get laid.