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If you think it will be easy to meet women as a new arrival in a big city, you may be in for a rude surprise. Pro tip: there are no places with no datable wome

• iancmceachern 5y ago
  It's not really about "women". It's about finding a partner in life that shares some of your same outlook, goals, passions, desires, etc. In some "small" places there simply is less opportunity (the denominator) to meet folks that share those things with you. The bigger the population of your area, the more chance one will come across that match. If a person tends toward a rural way of life, they likely will find that partner in rural areas, if not, not.
• llampx 5y ago
  In general, it should be easier to meet people that you click with, when the available pool is larger. This is also the reason for online dating's rise, and why NYC has a large population of single women.
• quickthrower2 5y ago
  A big city (or at least 1M pop) makes it a lot easier though. Otherwise its long drives to every date, the other person is not sure because you are so far away etc. Small towns have a culture and its often “get married have kids is all there is to life”. If thats not you, you have to move. Sorry for the stereotypes but datings is where you need to discriminate!
• rdtwo 5y ago
  San Fran is not great really west coast in general not great. Doable but with a disadvantage