Interesting that you felt the need to sexualize the girls who were interested in computers. They are people, not objects for your pleasure. If your comment eve

Interesting that you felt the need to sexualize the girls who were interested in computers. They are people, not objects for your pleasure. If your comment even remotely reflects your attitude towards them, then you might as well have been telling them "GET OUT! WE HATE WOMEN!". Do you think that maybe if you treated them like people and welcomed them to the group with patient explanations, expecting nothing, they might have hung around?