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If you have to do this, which you really don't, but if you do, start with cooking recipes, move on to algorithms, and the pseudocode. That is all. Guys always
by Maursault 5y ago
If you have to do this, which you really don't, but if you do, start with cooking recipes, move on to algorithms, and the pseudocode. That is all.
Guys always get the family wrong. Always. The father's task is not to raise and edify the child. Your task is only to support your wife and the mother of your children. Bonus points for loving your children. But let them do whatever the heck they want, and keep your mouth shut, because it isn't your problem and it isn't your job. Your problem is your wife. Other than providing for your family and doing your husbandly duties, you can change the oil, pay the bills, and keep the house secure and energy efficient. It's when people overreach that problems occur. If everyone would just do their jobs, things would be fine. But instead we have OCD control freak fathers that want to live their children's lives for them. Back off before you do serious damage, and just be happy, and if you can't, maybe talk to a psychologist once a month.
- dgeiser13 5y agoThat's an interesting tangent.
- Maursault 5y agoIt's also the tried and true method a family remains functional and successfully raises children to become psychologically healthy and responsible adults. But every new father wants to reinvent the wheel like it's an egotistical matter of his choices. This is how kids get screwed up, the extremes of no father and too much father. Kids with friends as fathers turn out to be real assholes. Father should just sit in his chair, read his paper, watch his news, and be bored out of his mind, but you know, ready at a moment's notice to discipline at mother's request, or to rush a broken arm to the emergency room, or just be positive and supportive when things don't matter, and it is so rare that anything actually matters.