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This reminds me of a conversation I was having recently with some engaged friends of mine, who are in their early 30s and were worried about whether they were r
by hugh3 15y ago
This reminds me of a conversation I was having recently with some engaged friends of mine, who are in their early 30s and were worried about whether they were really financially ready to have children yet. Of course they were extremely middle-class and presumably have a combined income well into the six-figure range, but they were still worried about whether they could financially support one kid. And then you've got stuff like this.
Whenever they interview a poor person for one of these sorts of articles, it always seems to be someone who has managed to make some really bad life decisions.
This should make us happy -- it indicates that if you can avoid the following bad lifestyle decisions:
1. Gambling
2. Drugs
3. Excessive alcohol
4. Becoming a single mother
5. Dropping out of high school
then your chances of being poor in America are really extremely low.
- makecheck 15y agoNot sure about #4. Single parenthood can sometimes be a choice (e.g. mother with donor), but it's much more likely not to be (e.g. unwilling divorce, death of a partner, teenagers who aren't ready).
- hugh3 15y agoWell, the vast majority of cases are caused by failure to use (sufficient) contraception by unmarried couples, which is a bad lifestyle decision. And even for divorce the vast majority of cases are caused by marrying an inappropriate person -- another poor lifestyle decision.