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> either in some excuse or obfuscation. I had a coworker like this. Not only would he not get anything done but at standup he would say clear BS to our manager
by throwaway943c45 5y ago
> either in some excuse or obfuscation.
I had a coworker like this. Not only would he not get anything done but at standup he would say clear BS to our manager who seemed to not understand it was BS. The BS was the thing that really got under my skin. Because his BS seemed to pass the test with the manager but was such elementary BS to the other engineers.
Finally one day I flipped out and called him out directly and wrote a long lengthy email to the managers. In my head I thought maybe this is what high performance teams do, like Apple and Microsoft, and I needed to step up.
I lost the job, and I still have regret three years later.
And it was my fault. Getting angry was very dumb.
I don't know what the right move is, but I had to create this account to urge you not to do what I did. I picked that battle and it was a mistake.
Let me add, in his defense, he was nice and didn't get in the way, and I had no idea what was going on in his situation. For all I know he went on to be a star employee (I have no idea). I screwed up.
- deanmoriarty 5y agoWhy did you lose your job? Was it because of the way you confronted the coworker? I can’t help but feeling so much empathy for you, if I had a company I would love those kind of things to bubble up my way from other employees. These (coworkers not pulling their weight and management being oblivious to it) are the kind of things smart people quit for. Everybody should be looking out for the health of the organization, the culture should belong to everybody. Most comments here are simply “mind your business”. So sad.